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The Finer Points

Insights on Embracing the Finer Life

Ways to Foster Harmony in a Blended Family

Family is everything, right? Well…Merging two families under one roof is a journey filled with potential for love, growth, and new beginnings. Yet, this path is often laden with obstacles, especially when negative dynamics threaten the family’s harmony.


The challenges become even more pronounced when a child, influenced by a resentful biological parent, exhibits behavior that disrupts the peace and safety of the household.

This intricate dynamic can put significant strain on relationships within the blended family, necessitating thoughtful and persistent efforts to navigate.


Consider the expanded tales of families grappling with these complex dynamics. For instance, in the Johnson family, the child, influenced by their mother’s negative views, began exhibiting concerning behaviors such as harming animals and relocating items from their father’s house to their mother’s, signaling a deep-seated struggle with the new family structure. They also engaged in covert activities like sending photos and videos to their biological mother, further complicating the family dynamics.




    TRIGGER WARNING On May 3, 2017 - I discovered that I was 'spotting' after using the restroom. I immediately called a close friend/colleague of mine and told her what just happened. She instructed me to go the Emergency Room (ER) to make sure that I was alright. Let me restate that in another way, to make sure that my baby was alright. I immediately got dressed and began calling 'the father of our child' and told him what was going on and that I was on my way to the ER. (Pause) - after what felt like agonizing moments of utter silence, he told me that he'd meet me at the hospital as soon as he was done with his presentation. My response was simply 'okay'. I had to remain calm until everything was checked out and I could be sent on my 'merry way'. *SN: Why do people even say such a thing as 'Merry Way'? I mean where did that term even come from; However, I digress.

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    A Roadmap for Busy Women to Thrive in Every Role


    Women around the world can relate to being busy, whether it’s the job, home, children, spouse, or just LIFE, and when life starts life-ing, we tend to grab that Superwoman cape with Wonder Woman bangles and Cheetara speed. Look, pssst…read this.


    Hey there, busy ladies! We know that life can often feel like a never-ending race, juggling work, family, and everything in between, according to my blog Unscripted Daily, we wear enough hats to fill the Kentucky Derby, and rest us usually not an accessory.


    But it’s crucial to remember that self-care for women is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Taking time for yourself isn’t selfish; it’s an investment in your well-being.


    In this article, we’ll explore some actionable steps to help you slow down, practice self-care, and champion a balanced lifestyle.


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    • Make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine. Schedule it like you would any other appointment. Consider it as important as any other commitment in your life. Embrace the Power of Saying “No”! Don’t overextend yourself by saying yes to everything.

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