Did you know that it can take a pearl anywhere between 6 months to even a few years to develop itself? In fact, pearls are considered soft gems and can be easily scratched; However, with care, pearls can be passed down from one generation onto another. In some cases, pearls are not only viewed as jewelry; but also, as knowledge too. Hence the phrase 'Pearls of Wisdom.'
Just like pearls, women (too) are viewed as 'soft gems'. Not just with our [physical] features, but also in reference to our [own] knowledge that has been developed based on one's experiences and/or circumstances. And for a pearl to be found, one must look past the hard and tough exterior shell, find the strength, courage, and see what's inside. Same thing, in terms of gaining wisdom; One must have gone through some trials, tribulations, and learned lessons along the way, to get that special 'pearl' that is only unique to that individual. Hmmm... Like when someone is figuring out how to deal with their own grief & loss... don't you think? [The dots will connect in just a moment].